Outgrowing Friendships

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Hey Beauties,
It’s been awhile since I’ve actually done a personal blog. i have been keeping up with the Michael Brown case and the ISIS events- that I’ve neglected to vent about my own experiences. Well today I want to touch on “out-growing friendships”-some of you may be able to relate, while others of you are puzzled. Well I’m sure all of us has attempted one way or another to rekindle a friendship. Whether it’s because you lost contact, had a fall out, or life took its course and you all just parted ways. Sometimes all works for the best- and then you have the moment where, you’ve tried so hard to get into contact with that person; and when you do you kick yourself in the ass-saying “why the hell did I do this to myself!” (a little dramatic, but you get my point..)
Once thing I’ve learned is that we all grown up differently, for some it takes the worst happening for them to grow up. Some are raised with a silver spoon in their mouth, and don’t know the true meaning of responsibility. So for two people to have grown up two different ways- they are not always going to see eye-to-eye. I’ve had my fair share of realizing a friendship has been out grown- yet in this case I think its much different. I’ve grown to believe that her and I are circumstantial friends. We became close in high school. I was the new girl that no one knew, and didn’t have anyone who had my back. She was the struggling math student, who needed her trigonometry class to graduate. We indirectly made a trade, I helped her pass the class, and she became a “friend”. After high school we went our separate ways and barley kept contact. Her we are 7 years later- and I feel as though I should have kept the friendship where it was- in the past! There are control issues, and I feel as though when I don’t act or do what she wants- then I’m mistreated. I think sometimes we have to learn the hard way to understand. And after this nonsense, I can say this is a learning lesson.

well beauties I hope everyone is having a good day, and if you’re not- it’s still early enough to make it better!

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